Understanding It Is More Important Than Solving It !!!
From Many years the thing called RELATIONSHIPS is getting a way too complicated due the misunderstandings between the couple. And in the last few years it is growing like a cancer ( You can treat it but cant stop it ) I'v being single through my whole life so I couldn't understand the problems the couples faces (the list is never ending) But the major problem lies between "Understanding each others needs" due to which most of the couples end breaking up. I'v observed it many times that a women thinks in opposite direction than what a men thinks, both are different in nature. Men are "Calm" where on the other hand Women are "Expressive".
Men, a so called Supreme animal on planet earth is so much sensitive in nature. But he don't like to share his feelings with the opposite sex. Rather he would be sharing it with himself in a locked room which makes him or gives him more stability to regain his consciousness. While in a relationship he always gives his first preference to his love interest, unaware of the other relations in his life. If he is truly in love with someone he stays loyal to the person no matter what happens in his life. But he doesn't like to be cheated, or to be doubt and most important is to compare him with others. If you follow all the rules given above you must be having a loyal Boyfriend and a happy relationship.
But the Question rises are you really following it ?
Most of the times it happens vice versa of this. As I said earlier Women are "Expressive" in nature and also a kind of Possessiveness holds up there nature. A women cannot share her Love with another women, and also to mention sometimes it is so that women also get jealous from the friendship between her Love interest and his friends circle. It is very common. Both Men & Women are from different Planets. Both the species share different thoughts. Women wants to share each and every secret, problem, experiences with others, whereas Men don't do the same, they prefer to stay quite and offer quick solution tips to others without even listening to the actual problem. Women want to share every thing in her life and also pressurize Men to do the same, which arises "Conflicts" between the opposite sex. Men holds high dignity for himself but women wants him to follow her, the way she thinks etc etc. But no men can do this for a long time, he is short tempered, always thinking about something or the other. He also has his family duties to perform, give time to his friends, work, studies, and even after all this he gives women time. Also this same applied to the Women. Both are different in Nature but you must understand each others feelings for maintaining a healthy relationship.
"My Last words"
For Men- Do give your female partner a chance to express herself, never act like a Suggestion Machine, keep your temper low, try to understand what your partner really wants from you, and the most important "Let her speak" you will get your chance afterwards but till then try to become a good listener rather than a good adviser.
For women- Don't act so possessive your partner is much loyal as you are, you just need to give him some space and some time for his family and friends. Don't let a small fight convert to a conflict ( This small fights are useful to strengthen the relationship) if you think that the conversation is turning upside down just change the topic, don't enhance it.
Therefore the moral turns out to be the same as the title, " Understanding It Is More Important Than Solving It !!!"
Men, a so called Supreme animal on planet earth is so much sensitive in nature. But he don't like to share his feelings with the opposite sex. Rather he would be sharing it with himself in a locked room which makes him or gives him more stability to regain his consciousness. While in a relationship he always gives his first preference to his love interest, unaware of the other relations in his life. If he is truly in love with someone he stays loyal to the person no matter what happens in his life. But he doesn't like to be cheated, or to be doubt and most important is to compare him with others. If you follow all the rules given above you must be having a loyal Boyfriend and a happy relationship.
But the Question rises are you really following it ?
Most of the times it happens vice versa of this. As I said earlier Women are "Expressive" in nature and also a kind of Possessiveness holds up there nature. A women cannot share her Love with another women, and also to mention sometimes it is so that women also get jealous from the friendship between her Love interest and his friends circle. It is very common. Both Men & Women are from different Planets. Both the species share different thoughts. Women wants to share each and every secret, problem, experiences with others, whereas Men don't do the same, they prefer to stay quite and offer quick solution tips to others without even listening to the actual problem. Women want to share every thing in her life and also pressurize Men to do the same, which arises "Conflicts" between the opposite sex. Men holds high dignity for himself but women wants him to follow her, the way she thinks etc etc. But no men can do this for a long time, he is short tempered, always thinking about something or the other. He also has his family duties to perform, give time to his friends, work, studies, and even after all this he gives women time. Also this same applied to the Women. Both are different in Nature but you must understand each others feelings for maintaining a healthy relationship.
"My Last words"
For Men- Do give your female partner a chance to express herself, never act like a Suggestion Machine, keep your temper low, try to understand what your partner really wants from you, and the most important "Let her speak" you will get your chance afterwards but till then try to become a good listener rather than a good adviser.
For women- Don't act so possessive your partner is much loyal as you are, you just need to give him some space and some time for his family and friends. Don't let a small fight convert to a conflict ( This small fights are useful to strengthen the relationship) if you think that the conversation is turning upside down just change the topic, don't enhance it.
Therefore the moral turns out to be the same as the title, " Understanding It Is More Important Than Solving It !!!"
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